Going out to eat should be fun. You’re with friends or loved ones - or perhaps a new acquaintance (first date?) or prospective client - and are looking to relax, please your palate and satisfy your stomach. It shouldn’t be too much to ask to get through a meal without a rise in blood pressure. But no restaurant is perfect, and there are many ways an enjoyable jaunt can be derailed by annoyances. Here are some issues we heard diners sound off on when we recently asked for your pet peeves, and some advice about alternatives. What bothers you the most?